SPECIAL FEATURE; IGNORANCE, AVARICE & LACK OF PRINCIPLES KILLER TO MARRAIGE INSTITUTION

We are interrupting our normal procedure to bring you this special feature to address a sensitive issue that many people in society have lost respect for it and taken it as just another normal thing. We condemn the selfish nature coloured by ignorance that will slowly see critical institutions brought to their knees at the expense of their defined purpose. Men particularly in life have failed dismally in salient issues. They have not only destroyed the real definition of familyy, but have also went ahead to spearhead wrong policies when initiating the same basic unit of life. Matterssex is what we want to discuss on this feature.

The right defined procedure of how such a thing should be approached is openly laid bare. Rules and regulations concerning sex is extrovert promulgated in life. Every activity that has been bestowed upon a human being has always had its terms and conditions. Work has its own laws under labour. We largely wonder when people choose to be blinded by their selfish pursuits to contravene a critical and sensitive rule that ought to be observed with utmost keenness they can find in the world. Sex has been identified previously as a gift to a human being and believe it or not nothing has changed as per the laid down regulation despite the change of times. A gift remains as a gift and no one should abuse its privilege by the fact that it is within their reach. 

You only have access to it when you have been given by somebody and granted that permission to use as your property to use as you want. Once that kind of order has not been issued, keep off some things. Sex is only allowed in marriage between a husband and a wife who have been legally joint together by such laws. It is as clear as it sounds. Like it or hate it, any other person that falls short of the definition commits a moral wrong in partaking sex when they know very well that they are not under the realm of a husband or a wife. Listening to a certain discussion yesterday was a major shocker to hear people respond carelessly about when is the right time to have sex in a relationship. The casual nature is placed upon sex is a sad revelation to still linger in our modern life. We thought by now people ought to have matured up and equipped themselves with relevant laws that concern their daily living.

But our surprise, a human being will always be a human being to be consumed by their own injustices and vices. The marriage institution in Kenya is not just rocked for no reasons. It is troubled because people have misplaced priority accorded on it. A cart has been placed before a horse and we still expect things to go right. Shame on everyone out there whose thought pattern, ignorance and self centeredness informed them to take sex and marriage as just another thing. We refuse to go with the masses on diluted philosophies renting the air to confuse young people and stick with the correct fact that sex is sacred and owes to be treated and identified as such and be respected and only practised where it is allowed and qualified.