Tuesday, April 10, 2012

What O f Emotional Weakness?

The little known mischievous social ills that brings down many heads grumbling to the ground. Emotional weakness in definition refers to emotional needs whereby an individual wants to be satisfied in one way or another. The needs can present themselves in form of one wanting to be loved, cared for or just to be given attention and sometimes to be listened to. All these missing links comes with equal level of danger and pleasant surprises for those who are lucky altogether. Many of our young people are characterized with such needs thereby entangling some to their circumstances.Those who are unaware in various issues and still struggling with identity crisis are the major victims due to their indecision nature and countless confusion that mires their lives during the transition period.

On the cross road, young adults and some who recently have come out of teenage suffer greatly when it comes to emotional weakness. It is at this point when many wish to get friends perhaps to confide in or may be someone to listen to their crisis. While in the process of seeking approval here and there, malicious hands can easily take advantage of the worries and despoil their innocence and leave them wounded and haunted by their decisions or slippery as the matter sounds, is also the participants. Friendship for along time has been cherished and hallowed by all and sundry. In search of such friendship is where many a young people have grappled and wrestled with death. One friend is so fast lane while the other somehow left behind yet we want to be cheated that they can dance to the same music.
 
In one way or another, one is bound to either to be misled or directed in a wrong path. That is where hell breaks loose and make a meal of the lost sheep. Heads keeps rolling in the name of friendships. Cases of secret hook ups are not new buzz words in this century. Friends have conned their fellows who innocently gave out their contacts to only get ousted later by a phone call from a total stranger suggesting to have received the victim's number from a close friend. This kind of clandestine motives are always a ready market of ruin. So on a mission to highlight the negative effects of love triangles, we advise our fellow youths to take control of their own lives and make personal decisions that have been mulled over and put into perspective the outcomes of such such decisions. Life is very important to be lost in such a controversial tryists.   

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