TRUE/FALSE: ABSTAINANCE

It is one of those subjects that has been a centre of many talk shows in and without. Both young and old have taken this matter yet very little is squeezed out of this topic. Abstainance whether myth or reality is here to with us. Despite so many reasons given as to why it is impossible to establish and maintain, I would not want to be drawn by the  feelings of  masses but rather look at it with its weight and facts.

Initially, that is in the customary world of traditions , society was guided by certain principles that helped dwellers coexist within a form of law and order. Even today, nothing has changed in terms of law and order. society stil is expected to observe values and norms that nurture people into responsible members of life. Change of time has occurred and brought about more insight and illumination on matters that in the past were only traded among the few qualified heads of elders.  We have a rule of law in every civilised society.

On another view, I also wnat to observe that human beings are not animals. More than any other creature, man is highly distinguished from other creations by virture of their thinking capacity and consciousnesss. Other notable consideration here is about the feelings that humanity have. You must know that feelings are not a subject of involuntary seismic. Every occurrance of a thought has a controlled ambience in an optimum parameter. To tell me that you are human and blood is running in your veins is an insult to human dignity.

Human being was given a head to think and to help him differentiate between a wrong and a right. To undermine such privilege and instead blame it for our selfish interests is a wrong notion that young members of this society are trying to embrace. Allowing your feelings to dictate your actions is a plain childish practice that should be left to incapacitated world to champion. The fact still remains now and forever that sex has conditions that have to be fulfilled before it is partaken. If for sure you know that in one way or another you are not within the definition, it is prudent of you to steer away and respect the institution. You cannot use a misplaced philosophy to justify a mistake. We need to style up as a society and choose to honour and respect the giver of life. Your life has more meaning other than dedicating it to demeanour.