Saturday, September 15, 2012

So poor parenthood Still exists?

If the necessary noise we are hear5ing is anything to go by, then indeed poor parenting exists. Poor parenting in its manifestation comes in many ways and forms. On one scenario, neglect of a child's needs in terms of her development , expression and giving relevant attention is one way of poor parenting. Refusal to guide a child in the right direction and hesitation in correcting mistakes promptly as they occur is also poor parenting. Parents 's absence in the lives of their children too is another form of poor parenting.

Failure to show love and protecting children from danger is as well a sign of poor parenting. The worst and regrettable one is all about parents being irresponsible and failing seriously to identify their roles in providing for their families. The list is formidable and all you need to understand  is that, we are suffering as a society in terms of parenting as some have loosen their belts and succumbed to pressure of life and literally fallen off from the steering wheels of driving their families.

Fathers for that matter have practically failed in their credibility test and thus surrendered their families to fate. Innocent children, teenagers and young adults who badly need leadership have been sidelined and left to dogs. A lot of drama is witnessed in many homes at the expense of proper growth alignment of the said children. Poor parenting as our little research as shown largely results from immaturity from the part of parents. Some are haunted by their previous life as children when they were growing thereby carrying the same attitude into their present families.

Thus creating an incessant chain of unsolved issues. We feel that there is enough time for people to grow up and correct mistakes. We also hold the opinion that people should not take into marriage until they are sure of what they are engaging into in order to slow down felonies in our present life. Some parents today are a big disappointment to their children. A picture that should not have happened in the first place. If that reason you are a parent out there, take heed to recheck your parenting styles.  

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