Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Of lack of self- regulation

cases have been reported here and there regarding lack of self regulation and as a result; the outcome has been bitter, shameful and distraught altogether. We have audibly heard about the murmuring from the church and how cases of impunity, high handedness and down right injustices where we have seen the weak oppressed and little children abused. Just like any other facet that lacks self regulation, we as human beings have not been left behind. You have earlier heard that evil flourish when good men remain silent. Queerness, stubbornness, failure of observing due diligence, promotion of mediocrity, infuriating the force of law and disregarding vital areas of life and taking everything as similar are some of the consequences of lack of regulations.

In that regard , when freedom is misused and diluted such that it is forced to cross boarders that are not supposed to be crossed, then everything becomes irrelevant and lacks that value and interests to the concerned. We have witnessed such madness before in one capacity or the other and no one likes such scenarios and I personally do not understand why you have to let loose your belt to only create shameless occurrences around your life. I still don't know when people in life will just appreciate a privilege as it is and use it in the right manner. Every day and even often than not, we have to include our notorious nature which ends up destroying the whole process. R regulations are about establishing limits and controls for the well being of our own life. I t is about realizing order and smooth flow of affairs. It is also about people learning to stick to the policies that govern a particular work. We don't have to walk around helter skelter.

Life has a lot that needs to be accomplished. If all we can do best is engage in wasting time in clumsiness then when will we know that life is an opportunity and benefit from it? How will we travel our journeys safely if we always want to act below par? Self regulation is about instilling discipline in human beings to talk only when necessary and not because you have a mouth. Hold on to your limits as a parent. Administer your own family according to the relevant right standards not because you are the parent and in that regard, you want to take advantage of the privilege and misuse the presence of your children and turn them into slaves.

YOU SIT AROUND LAZILY AND ORDER THEM ABOUT THIS AND THAT WITH YOUR RAISED VOICE TO ONLY INSTILL FEAR IN THEM INSTEAD OF DIRECTING THEM IN PRINCIPLES , character development and discipline. Children have to be taught to be responsible members of society but not through high handedness and arrogance. They are your children certainly but their rights as children has to be fully observed and be respected. You exempt yourself from your duties and let them at their tender ages to cook for themselves yet some have school work to handle. If you know that you are one of those parents who thinks that they are absolute and that their command is their children's order, all we can tell you is that you are weak and incompetent in some level. Real parents know how to run their families honorably.

Stop shouting around, grow up and learn to cut down on your impunity. Learn regulations. Understand where to draw the line. Talk reasonably to your children. STOP GIVING THEM A DIFFICULT TIME THAT EARLY. THEY HAVE A long way to travel where you are needed in every stage. Provide requisite guidance not fear and abuses. Every human being needs to check their limits in relation to everything that is granted to them freely. There are those who abuse their own lives. Them too we tell them to learn what it means to be regulated.   

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